Does changing slutty ways mean completely stop having or stick to one person?

im know as being promiscuous but iv changed in the past 2 years iv only been with one person and im now again starting the celibacy route will changing mean i should completely stop having like instead of celibacy consider abstinence or would i be fine just sticking to one person i want to change and have people see iv change whats the better option for me? i have no problem with the two i but i do feel like now a days being in a older relationship without is rare and what one girl wont do another one will should i wait till i find the right one have or just cut the male species out entirely and wait till married i want what you think the best decision for me is and i really have no problem going without i am not a addict at all every time iv had sex it was for what i thought was love which now i know wasn't it was more emotional than physical on my part but im still perceived *** a because ive had around 4 partners and was also gang d orally and also i dont want to hear why do you care what people think about you am i wrong for wanting to change my rep to a good one this will also change how guys view me i dont want to be constantly played and not know it all because of my bad rep i want a decent relationship and i also want respect so i will need to change in order to get it because im not being viewed as the real good nice person that i am